More fun from the SEB Mailbag:
- Subject: Can you talk about something else?
From:
Date: 12/16/2006 12:01 AM
To: Les Jenkins
Judging by your web site, you are obviously an atheist which is not precisely why I am emailing. The main reason I am emailing you is because I can’t understand why all or at least the vast majority of atheists can’t seem to EVER stop talking about God, the Bible, stories from the Bible and Jesus. Why is that? Atheists talk about God more than Christian’s do. I have noticed you can’t listen to the songs of an atheist without having to hear all about their beliefs, you can’t visit the web site of an atheist without having to endure the constant resurfacing subject of their disbelief in God and Jesus, but I don’t usually hear them mention Mohammed, Buddha, Hare Krishna or anybody else. You can’t even have a conversation with an atheist without them constantly reminding you of their disbelief and backward judgments of other people. I hate that.
It seems to me that atheists are obsessed with Christianity. I mean look at it in another light: What if there was a group of people who hated big boobs? Ok, that’s not the kind of thing that is going to work it’s way into a casual conversation just as the subject of Christianity is not likely to surface in a casual conversation. But if the boob hating population just couldn’t shut up about how much they hate big boobs and why, not many people are going to continue talking/listening to them. I have one piece of advice: Either get down on your knees and pray to God or JUST SHUT UP! Talk about SOMETHING, ANYTHING ELSE!
Don’t bother to answer this email, as I already know your response will be full of hatred as you seem to be seething with it, and defensiveness. I only emailed because I wondered if you were aware of how much you talk about God and Christianity while screaming you don’t believe it to people who didn’t seek you out to know the thoughts and musing of you.
My reply to Mr. Mark Smith was short and sweet: If you don’t like what I say then don’t come to my website, dumbass.


















I may have a perspective here that Mr. Smith could learn from. I’m the son of a Southern Baptist minister and spent the majority of my childhood attending fundamentalist Christian services at least 3 times a week. Even today I have a pretty good grasp of the Christian Bible and can usually call to mind at least the essence of commonly quoted passages.
Today I would have to identify myself to the majority as atheist, simply because very few would see my desire for bettering myself through any spiritual search as being “of God”. So why do I, as many here also do, talk so much about the theist form of God and popular Christianity? Because only one who has felt the pain of subjugation to absurd dogmatic assertions can truly see how much of the world around us reflects the popular Christian perspective. When ones environment reflects what one believes as truth, the ego is reinforced allowing it to be emboldened with a fragile form of self-esteem and a tenuous peace. But when the opposite case arises, people tend to talk about it, be they atheist, Christian, or whatever. And they seek reinforcement from the like-minded. There are numerous examples of this in the popular Christian world, so why would anyone expect others to be any different? If Mr. Smith is a typical active participant in popular Christianity, then I suspect he spends a decent amount of time talking about the “evil” of this world as opposed to the love and grace of God.
These are my experiences only, so I’m not trying to say that everyone here feels as I do. But I do wish that Mr. Smith could understand how the wounds that I’m trying to heal without playing the role of “victim” and blaming others in the process, get poked each time I encounter the Christian influence in the social circles of life which should be free for all thoughts and perspectives.
I don’t want to be a “bitter atheist” and I don’t need others to change to accommodate my search for peace and meaning. But it would be a great help if there were a few less “bitter Christians” trying to dominate the thoughts and actions of others.
Peace,
Darrin