Reparative Therapy: The Debate That Never Was

Posted by Michael Peacock on Friday, November 17, 2006 at 05:41 PM. Read 1699 times. Tags:
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Jeez - I spend a couple weeks away, and there’s two huge new threads here about sexual orientation.  This was my brief comment about something I saw recently in the paper about Ted Haggard, and how he’s trying to get back into the fold.  Reposted on http://www.smugbaldy.com

In a recent article, AP columnist David Crary claims that the scandal involving the Reverend Ted Haggard and his extra-marital contact with a gay prostitute has “renewed the debate” about something that has widely been discredited in psychological circles: Reparative Therapy.

“Haggard is Exhibit A of how people can’t change their sexual orientation,” said Wayne Besen, a gay-rights activist and author. “With all that he had to lose—a wife, children, a huge church—he had to be who he was in the end. He couldn’t pray away the gay.”

Proponents of reparative therapy, however, claim that sexual orientation is changeable through the use of any of several techniques, many (though not all) of which are based on a Christian religious perspective.  Indeed, while some therapists use individual or group counseling or activities, many therapists utilize prayer, fasting, and religious instruction.  In some cases therapists attempt to cure homosexuality through the use of electroconvulsive therapy or aversion therapy [Ref].

Opponents of reparative therapy claim that sexual orientation is unchangeable, and as such, any efforts to change one’s orientation will not only be met with failure, but will also likely cause harm to the individual.  In addition, opponents criticize the science behind reparative therapy because of a lack of peer review as well as the potential for clinical research bias.  Essentially, current research does not support the central claim put forth by reparative therapy proponents - that homosexuality is innately negative, and as a result, homosexuals want to change.  In addition, critics point out that reparative therapy doesn’t speak to the issue of female homosexuality at all - which is another indication of clinical bias in its proponents. [Ref.]

The American Psychological Association makes it’s position very clear:

The term “reparative therapy” refers to psychotherapy aimed at eliminating homosexual desires and is used by people who do not think homosexuality is one variation within human sexual orientation, but rather still believe homosexuality is a mental disorder. The most important fact about “reparative therapy,” also sometimes known as “conversion” therapy, is that it is based on an understanding of homosexuality that has been rejected by all the major health and mental health professions. The American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Counseling Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the American Psychological Association, the National Association of School Psychologists, and the National Association of Social Workers, together representing more than 477,000 health and mental health professionals, have all taken the position that homosexuality is not a mental disorder and thus there is no need for a “cure.”

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, published by the American Psychiatric Association and defining the standard of the field, does not include homosexuality as a mental disorder. All other major health professional organizations have supported the American Psychiatric Association in its declassification of homosexuality as a mental disorder in 1973. Thus, the idea that homosexuality is a mental disorder or that the emergence of same-gender sexual desires among some adolescents is in any way abnormal or mentally unhealthy has no support among health and mental health professional organizations.
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My take on this whole renewed debate is simple: There really isn’t a debate.  Never has been.

Instead, on one side we have had agreement from all the respected professional mental health associations since 1973 that homosexuality and bisexuality are normal variations within human sexual orientation.  On the other side, we have individuals and groups with political and religious interests in maintaining and consolidating social power, and they are clearly not above leveraging fear and pseudoscience to achieve their goals.  This “debate” isn’t about whether Ted can come back into the fold of heterosexuality, but rather about whether we are all dumb enough to believe that he should want to, or be forced to try to do so in the first place.

In addition, I believe that nothing speaks more eloquently of the circular logic that supports reparation therapy than this: If, in any argument involving homosexuality, we were apply the same logic to heterosexuality instead, does the argument still hold water?  For example, if we accept the premise behind reparation (or conversion) therapy that sexual orientation is changeable through Christian counseling techniques, then it should be quite possible for heterosexual individuals to become homosexual or bisexual if they pray, fast, or meditate enough.  Oops - wait a minute - here comes the kicker.  Proponents will quickly point out that this isn’t possible, because only non-hetero orientations are changeable.  Heterosexuality is what they call “innate sexual orientation” and it is not changeable - so once you’re hetero, you never go back because of its “special” status.  Clearly, this argument falls apart because it requires more than simple logic to support it - we also need to accept that heterosexuality is some sort of special sexual orientation that cannot be changed while any other orientation can be.

If you apply this little device to just about any claim made about sexual orientation: Lifestyle choice (When did you choose to become heterosexual?), political agenda (there’s a vast, heterosexual conspiracy), family raising (heterosexuals are the best parents) - you see that the claims just don’t hold water: Nobody decides to become heterosexual, there is no cabal of heterosexuals pushing the hetero political agenda, and the last time I checked, 99 percent of parents that abuse and murder their partners and children are heterosexual. 

There’s a simple explanation for all this and health professionals have been repeating it for over 30 years: Human sexual orientation is a continuum - and all variations of human sexuality are normal - even heterosexuality.

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Consigliere United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 05:40 PM

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There are fair skinned people who cannot tan, their skin burns and turns red but they never tan.

Sexual experimentation should be discouraged then since nobody knows who the fair skinned folks are, and we don’t want people getting skin cancer, no?

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KPatrickGlover United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 05:50 PM

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IDM:Bisexual males are distinct from homosexual males and are largely invisible. The reason for this invisibility is that because of anti-gay social pressures, the vast majority of bisexual males have already repressed their homosexual side

I ran across a story online somewhere (can’t find the damn link now)that suggested a lot of male sci-fi geeks are coming out as bisexual now, due to the acceptance of Captain Jack Harkness on Doctor Who.

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Last_Hussar Great Britain (UK) Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:02 PM

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I’d shag him.

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Last_Hussar Great Britain (UK) Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:03 PM

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I wish to claim the prize for the most shallow post ever. Sorry.

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itdontmatter United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:07 PM

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KPG: I ran across a story online somewhere (can’t find the damn link now)that suggested a lot of male sci-fi geeks are coming out as bisexual now, due to the acceptance of Captain Jack Harkness on Doctor Who.

That is VERY interesting.  Did the article indicate whether the geeks were genuinely coming out, or was it a fan fad type of thing?  I searched for it and came up empty.

I hope that somebody over here picks up Torchwood.

KPatrickGlover United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:11 PM

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The article wasn’t really specific, more of a one paragraph blurb among a bunch of other sci-fi related news bits.

I thought it might have been over at Ain’t It Cool News, but I can’t find it there.

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itdontmatter United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:14 PM

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LH:  You may be shallow, but you left yourself wide open.

Sadie Jane United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:23 PM

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LH wrote:

I’d shag him.

I wish to claim the prize for the most shallow post ever. Sorry.

Color me shallow right along with you. I’d shag him too. cheese

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KPatrickGlover United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:53 PM

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Off to find me A Captain Jack costume.......

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Webs United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 06:55 PM

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Consi: how do you know you are not a homosexual?  If it is a choice, how did you choose not to be one?  If you chose by getting married and having sex to the opposite sex, have you ever had sex with a man?  If no, then how do you know you are truly not a homosexual?  How can you know you don’t like something till you try it?

But even so, aren’t some things an acquired taste?  Maybe it takes time for us to choose to become a homosexual.  Maybe if a heterosexual has anal sex enough times, they will truly realize their homosexual tendencies.

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Michael Peacock United States Posted on 11/22/2006 at 07:37 PM

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Webs: Maybe if a heterosexual has anal sex enough times, they will truly realize their homosexual tendencies.

Huh? Oh do you mean if you’re a heterosexual guy and you take it in the ass enough you’ll start to look dreamily at Capt. Jack?

I don’t think it’s a matter of what you do.  It’s more a matter of what you’re attracted to. My guess is if you’re a heterosexual guy and you like getting fucked in the ass, you’re probably already lying to someone about your sexual preferences.

KPG: I ran across a story online somewhere (can’t find the damn link now)that suggested a lot of male sci-fi geeks are coming out as bisexual now, due to the acceptance of Captain Jack Harkness on Doctor Who.

And the rest of them stay up for Battlestar, because Cylon women are hot.

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Last_Hussar Great Britain (UK) Posted on 11/22/2006 at 08:26 PM

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Off to find me A Captain Jack costume.......

I don’t think its the cotume she’s after KPG…

If it is I have an advantage- my dad may still have some of his RAF stuff- He’s definately got the Greatcoat buttons, which I could sow onto my Overcoat....

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LuckyJohn19 Australia Posted on 02/07/2007 at 09:25 PM

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LH: I’d shag him.

I heard on the news recently that there was a survey of Heterosexual men in the UK and 50% of them admitted they’d shag David Beckham before they’d shag Victoria.  wink

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