UTI’s Brent points us to a transcript of an excellent lecture she delivered to The New York Society for Ethical Culture on raising your kids as atheists that she gave back in December.
And so, to me, atheism means what it says – without god or gods, living your life without recourse to a large chiaroscuro of a supreme being to credit or to explain or to excuse. Now I’ll be the proud mother and say that my daughter understands this. A couple of days ago, in preparation for this talk, I was interviewing her, asking her a few questions about how she viewed her heathen heritage. First I asked her if she believed in god. She crinkled up her nose at me like I had mentioned something distasteful, like spinach and liver, or kissing a boy, and said, No! I asked her if she was sorry she’d been raised as an atheist, and she said no, she liked it. I asked why. First, she said, you don’t have to waste Sundays going to pray. Also I’d rather do things myself than have somebody else do them for me. If somebody gets sick, I wouldn’t just pray to god he or she gets better, I would try to buy some medicine for them, to help them get better.
Oh, I liked that answer. I couldn’t help it. This sounded to me like, what do you call it, a value system. She also said that she likes to see things for herself before believing in them. If a friend told me, guess what, I’ve got a flying dog, I’d say, can I see it. Katherine said she has friends who claim they’ve seen god. One of her close friends told her she’s seen bright lights in the middle of the night that she knows were signs from Jesus. So Katherine asked her if she could do a sleepover, to check out the light for herself. Oh, you’d never see it, her friend replied. Only people who believe in god can see it.
As Richard Dawkins has said, “With religion, there’s always an escape clause.”
It’s a good read. Go check it out.


















The dictionary definition of theist is not substantively different. I don’t believe in multiple gods, yet those who do are also defined as theists. Whether one believes in one god or an infinite number of gods is not relevant to whether one is a theist. Simply believing in any number of gods defines one as a theist.
I don’t see how the dictionary definition of atheist tells anyone which positions to hold, either. You define yourself as an atheist the moment you disbelieve that there is such a thing as one or more deities. Nobody is telling anyone what positions to hold.
Interestingly enough, “faith” is a synonym of “belief.”
Anyway… this seems pointless. We’re apparently not going to agree. Blame it all on my ignorance if that’s what helps you get thru another day. I don’t much mind either way.
I have poked around some and notice that many of you regulars here (and Les) aren’t very far from me politically. My political compass is very close to Les’ - (-5.6, -4).
So, at least we have some common ground.