C.W. Nevius of SFGate.com has a really good article on the uproar over gay marriages and how they supposedly threaten to undermine the “traditional definition of marriage” in this country. President Bush is quoted as saying “Marriage cannot be severed from its cultural, religious and natural roots without weakening the good influence of society,” and yet if you take a good look at the history of marriage it’s clear that such serverances have been many and varied throughout history.
Nevius points out that back during the early history of America (1700-1800s) a married woman gave up many of the “rights” she enjoyed as a single person upon taking her vows. She could no longer own property or sign contracts and any money earned outside of the home had to be turned over to her husband. On the plus side, she didn’t have to pay taxes. In many ways a married woman was the property of her husband and this didn’t change until the the latter-half of the 19th Century, but change it did. Mixed race marriages weren’t legal in any state until California changed their laws in 1948 and it was 19 years more before the Supreme Court made it nation-wide. In many states it was still illegal for mixed race couples to marry until the year I was born (1967), but change it did. More interesting still is what you get when you look closely at just what the Bible suggests about marriage:
Marriage’s lineage a bit convoluted
“It is really much more complex in religious perspective than you might think,’’ says Tolbert, the George Atkinson Professor for Biblical Studies at the Pacific School of Religion. “What the Hebrew Bible (or Old Testament) suggests as a general model for marriage is polygamy. You look at someone like Solomon who had 200 wives and 600-and-some concubines. Or Abraham, who had his first child by his wife’s slave. It sounds as if it was quite normal.’’
Tolbert, who is also the executive director for the Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry, points out that marriage didn’t even become a sacrament of the church “until the 12th century. For the first 1,200 years (A.D.) in Europe there were civil unions by town or village government.’’
Nor does the New Testament offer much help. In fact, by some selective readings it sounds as if the Bible has mixed views of marriage. As Tolbert says, Jesus says very little about marriage, and both he and Paul were single men. And Paul, at least, recommended chastity.
“Marriage is not a sin,’’ says Paul in First Corinthians, “but it is better to be unmarried.’’
“The Bible is an incredibly important sacred icon in our culture,’’ says Tolbert. “But I just think a lot of people don’t read it.’’
That not many people read the Bible they supposedly follow is obvious. I issued a challenge awhile back for anyone to list a single valid reason that wasn’t religious in nature as to why gays shouldn’t be allowed to marry and never got anyone to take me up on that challenge. That challenge still stands.


















This should be fun…
That sounds pretty much like a good berating right there. It also insinuates that I intentionally ignored the point you’re trying to raise, which I don’t feel that I did. If I were hostile to any conversation that might generate a response that is contrary to my opinion then I’d spend a lot more time making use of the delete option and would have probably just deleted your response as you had asked. Nor did I say anything about you being opposed to or in favor of same-sex marriages. I did comment on both your insistence that the “slippery slope” argument is a valid consideration and your suggestion that marriage as it currently stands isn’t already a mockery of itself.
I read and understood your post just fine and I addressed your point that a change allowing same-sex marriages could start us down a slippery slope to a point where marriage is reduced to being a mockery of itself. I argue that in many ways it already is. You also seem to be implying that there aren’t already purely monetary reasons for people to get married or that it doesn’t occur for said reason. I believe your exact statement was “IF it were advantageous in some fashion, say monetarily, to be ‘married’, and it was legal to name anything as the partner, then it seems to me, the smart thing to do would be to engage in such a charade.” There are already numerous advantages to being married, including monetary reasons, that have prompted plenty of heterosexual marriages to take place that are largely charades. The only real difference is that only people willing to marry people of the opposite sex can participate is said charades.
Marriage to me is both a social contract between two people and the ultimate expression of commitment you can make to another person. Pretty simple really.
The question of why is a good one and I can see possible argument both for and against government involvement in defining it. I can also see how it could be considered a form of discrimination as well. I honestly haven’t done a lot of studying on the pros and cons of government promoting the concept of marriage for the simple reason that I never thought to question it before. My interest is piqued, however, so I’ll be looking into this more closely.
Thank you for dictating to me what my opinions are based on. Yes, I tend to be of the mindset that you can’t always apply black and white thinking to a world that is shades of gray ethically speaking. Your authoritative insistence that situational ethics don’t work at all is not borne out by my experiences. Without considering the situation involved in any particular event we end up with the idiotic “zero tolerance” rules and laws that get kids kicked out of school for having a pair of fingernail clippers in their pocket. The whole point of the Judicial branch is to try to apply the black and white thinking of most laws to the situations involved in each and every court case that comes before them. That’s why they’re called JUDGES.
I never said we shouldn’t consider what may come tomorrow, I said the slippery slope argument is never a valid argument to make. It’s clear you don’t have a clue what a “slippery slope” fallacy is so allow me to enlighten you:
The Slippery Slope is a fallacy in which a person asserts that some event must inevitably follow from another without any argument for the inevitability of the event in question. In most cases, there are a series of steps or gradations between one event and the one in question and no reason is given as to why the intervening steps or gradations will simply be bypassed. This “argument” has the following form:- Event X has occurred (or will or might occur).
- Therefore event Y will inevitably happen.
This sort of “reasoning” is fallacious because there is no reason to believe that one event must inevitably follow from another without an argument for such a claim. This is especially clear in cases in which there is a significant number of steps or gradations between one event and another.
Now allow me to quote your own statement that shows just how perfectly you’ve managed to express this fallacy: “If the definition of marriage is changed, and because of that change, rights of marriage extended to whatever constitutes that marriage, abuse will inevitably creep in.”
Damn, that’s pretty much a text-book example right there. If you now wish to debate whether or not the “slippery slope” fallacy should be considered a fallacy I’d love to hear what you have to offer in support of such a concept.
I don’t deny that I can be hostile toward religion and mocking of it as well. Theres a lot about religion that makes it worthy of being mocked in my mind. I also confess to the idea that I can be arrogant and even ignorant on some subjects, but I would argue that I am far from the fanatics and extremists that I detest. Still, this is your opinion you’re expressing and you’re more than welcome to it. Whether you consider me on par with those I oppose is of little real concern to me. I hold no illusions of having everyone think I’m wonderful.
Of course they have a touch of bias. I’d be lying to claim otherwise as would anyone. When I’m expressing my personal opinions then my comments are practically brimming with my bias and I find it silly to think it should be otherwise. When dealing with facts I try to be as objective as I can, but I am only human and I make no apologies for that.
Again I would debate how uninformed my opinions actually are. Certainly they’re no worse than anything you’ve put forth so far and arguably better than most. I do make a point of searching out and reading up on opposing viewpoints before I comment. I even admitted in this very response that I hadn’t considered the “why” of defining marriage much. I’m willing to own up to my ignorance which is more than most do.
If half the country holds a position based solely on a fallacy than there is nothing wrong with wholesale rejection of that position. Just because half the country is drawing their conclusions from a stupid argument doesn’t make that argument any less stupid or any more valid.
You may as well say that I lack “insite” if I reject wholesale the viewpoint shared by half the country that claims everyone should drink their own urine. You’re perfectly within your rights to base your conclusions on a fallacy and to drink your own urine if you think it’s appropriate, but I’m still going to point out how idiotic I think you are for it.
If you want a realistic discussion then make realistic assertions that aren’t based on stupid fallacies. It would also probably serve you well to ensure that your own ignorance isn’t showing before you try to tell me about how ignorant I happen to be.
Randall, it’s late and I should be in bed. I’ll address your response later.