What the fuck is wrong with you people?
Help save Karyn! Give her a swift kick in the ass!
I first heard about this from my good friend Kiiri, who doesn’t have her own blog yet so I can’t link to it even though she keep saying she’s going to do it, and I avoided talking about it at the time. Recent events have convinced me I should bitch a little about it though.
Seems some “really nice” girl by the name of Karyn has managed to rack up $20,000 in credit card debt and has put up a website asking for donations from people to help her pay off this debt. According to her website she has managed to received about $6,736.68 in donations from other “really nice” people along with $1600.36 in sales of various assorted items of hers on eBay. Combined with the money she’s been paying into it herself she’s gotten her credit card down to $10,408.80 in 8 weeks.
My first reaction on seeing the site was mild amusement, but I didn’t harbor any doubts about it working. I’ve seen first hand that there are lots of people out there willing to toss time, money, and effort behind any number of useless and stupid causes and Karyn is just cashing in on it. I’ve said many times in the past that anytime someone feels the need to spend money on me for no good reason to feel free to do so, that’s why I have my Amazon Wishlist linked on my site, but I’ve never approached it as though I thought I deserved to have people spend money on me and that probably explains why very few people do. Though Laughing Muse did send me the book listed in my currently reading section which was a great surprise.
The site has already garnered it’s fair of critical reaction including a parody site called Don’t Save Karyn which currently ranks as my personal favorite. It has also received just tons of publicity from the mainstream media which hasn’t hurt it’s ability to attract donations. Naturally lots of bloggers have weighed in on the topic including Kat over at My Single Mom Life and it was the reaction she got to her entry on it that prompted me to write my own.
Seems she pissed a few of Karyn’s supporters off by being critical of someone who’s begging for money that doesn’t really need it. Karyn’s working, is paid relatively well and doesn’t appear to be close to destitute. She just sounds like she’s really a piss-poor money manager. She may even be “really nice” as she claims on her website, but she’s hardly what I’d call a worthy charity case. You can see a couple of pics of this poor destitute woman over at The Smoking Gun as her image is obscured on her website. I can admire her ability not to give a shit what her critics think, but I think she’s in need of a swift kick in the ass more than a donation. There are a lot of other people out there that these people could be sending money to who could really use it, many of whom can’t even afford to own a computer to put up a website to ask for it.
Still, I’ll never stand against someone’s right to spend their money on stupid shit so allow me once again state that if you need to spend money on someone for no good reason, well, I’m always willing to accept it. I can even come up with a good cause for you! I need to buy a house some time early next year as I’m sick of living in this crummy little two bedroom apartment. Currently I plan on using my upcoming income tax return as part of the down payment, but if I got 10,000 people to donate $1 then I’d have more than enough for a down payment and could spend my income tax return on furniture for the house! Now if that’s not a worthy cause, what isn’t? I’ll tell the mailman to expect the onset of back problems from the upcoming flood of checks. Thank you.
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about 6 years ago
Hello,Ive landed on this site while desperately searching for some information on how I can get my son some help.He is needing it so badly.I can find the place but unless I have 8500.00 he cant go.I have to watch him slowly kill himself because I am not wealthy enough.Any suggestios?
about 6 years ago
hello Les. my name is kevin. i too think it is bad to ask for help but if anyone is in need of help I think I can say that i do. It seems like I got a predictament and managed to end up with a necklace in my gut. and lost my job because i was taking time off for medical leave for this situation.Now what do you think if i was asking for help.. would I be wrong to.If you think i got a good cause seeking assistance will you help. I always wondered if america is giving..will you help.. thanks for your time and cooperation hope to hear a response soon…
about 4 years ago
Thanks, Les, for nothing! lol After reading the link on whther you looked like a pedophile or not (you have to get more of a leer down first), I followed your link to this thread. I then clicked on the Save Karyn link. Yep, the site is still up, but she is no longer in nedd of donations. She has a book for sale called “Save Karyn” (imagine that). In addition, she has helpful hints on how to stay out of debt (the irony here is just mind-boggling) with plenty of disclaimers about not being a professional credit manager- duh! Now I’m in a really pissy mood because some fools paid off this bimbo’s debt. Hey, my wife and I are trying to start our own rural healthcare clinic. That seems like a more worthy venture to get donations. Plus that would save us the hassle of having to submit a business proposal to a bank. We’re only looking for start-up capital of $200K. Any takers… please? Oh well, it was worth a try! lol
about 4 years ago
Hey, that looks like Brocks first post! Funny – when you come onto an ‘entrenched’ blog like this one, you always feel like the regulars have been there *forever*, even once your’re one of them yourself.
So its a bit like an archeological surprise when something like this turns up
about 4 years ago
Heh, I noticed that as well. His first post is very much at odds with his current avatar though! lol
about 4 years ago
I don’t think it’s actually my first comment but close to it probably.
SEB used to be a read only blog for me and when I finally collected enough courage to post a comment I was usually pathetically agreeable and wishy-washy. I think this was my first attempt to show I had a spine and as you can tell, I was still vacillating between being ballsy and full of fear of being banned.
After I wasn’t banned I went on to post the most disturbing comment Les has yet received and I’ve continued to make asinine remarks and even a couple of meaningful comments.
You may remember me best as the foil to Mild Bill or David or Chris. I remember me best as the guy who talked too much at least once.
Oh, and I once suggested that ingolfson should befriend a gay person or two. That didn’t go over very well at all.
about 4 years ago
Oh please – not the old saw again. I specifically did NOT mention that row, even though it certainly was MY first contact with yours truly.
Your suggestions were a bit more direct than simply telling me to befriend a gay person, Brock. I still stand behind my opinion – but I hope that the misunderstanding behind the actual argument had been cleared up by now, and that the smoking wrecks had been cleared from the infohighway?
about 4 years ago
I don’t say this often enough, but if SEB is a success as a blog it’s easily as much to do with the regulars who hang out here as any of the random thoughts I put up as commentary. You guys and gals are the cream in my coffee, Brock especially so.
Jay sayin’ is all.
about 4 years ago
Sorry about that old chestnut ingolfson but I’ve felt animosity from you for some time now and that’s our only meeting that I can track it back to. Your first comment above felt like a kick and suggested to me that I hadn’t been here long enough. Long enough for what, I don’t know.
Truth be told, I wish I had been here from the very first day. That’s how much respect and admiration I have for SEB. It’s been over 2 years here for me now (just counting my commenting phase) and I hope I’ll always have this place to come to.
Les, thank you. I’ve been scandalous at times and I’ve certainly been more interesting to read, more dedicated to fleshing out a comment with information and validated opinion. I look back at some of my comments and I’m proud that I took the time and effort to speak. Lately it seems like I’ve lost my nerve and am afraid to put myself on the line again. I’m not sure why. I hope that changes soon as I love being a noticeable part of this place.
You give us all the tools we need to feel welcomed and able to discuss issues so it isn’t that. The design aspects and content of this blog are superb; I’ve always said that. I think it might be that I’m feeling guilty about not being smarter, more gifted at sparking enlightening discussions.
I’ve seen some especially gifted speakers come and go here. I miss them. I want to be seen as worthy so that I won’t feel like disappearing too. What you said allowed me to feel worth again. Thanks again for that.
about 4 years ago
I’m sad to hear that. What made you think of it that way (except that we have sparred in the past)? It was not intended that way in the least. Take it as it stands: you were a regular when I came here, and I commented on finding the first post of a reglar. Could have been DOF or someone else just the same.
Why? Apart from our first argument (plus the argument about the first argument some time later), we never had much direct contact here. The only time we seem to talk is when that old first argument crops up again – which is why I did NOT mention it here!
Since we obviously can’t start over – you only meet someone for the first time once – how about letting bygones be bygones from now? I don’t hold you any ill will.
about 4 years ago
For example, I recently commented on your new avatar for example. Seen this way, you COULD have taken that the wrong way (I said something about your new avatar – which I really LIKE – being a true-blue american avatar because he gives you the finger with the right hand. Because, if I remember, the post was also talking about normality and left-handed people and stuff).
I hope that wasn’t one of those moments of animosity that you meant, for again, it was not intended as such.
about 4 years ago
I can do that. Better yet:
“Hey, you’re ingolfson from Germany, right? Nice to meet you. I’m Brock.”…
“I know, it has been a long party but no one’s passed out yet and there’s still plenty of beer and snacks so grab yourself a beer and I’ll introduce you to some friends.”…
“Pardon me for a moment while I take this lampshade off. Someone told me it would look killer on me and I don’t doubt that it does but it’s easier to talk with it off.”
“Oh, and I’ve been here longer than DOF. At least I think I have…”
about 4 years ago
Too bad we are WAY to scattered all over the world for a real SEB party. I’d really like to meet Les and the other regulars.
Ah well, maybe once we are all rich
*Takes a beer, raises it as a ‘cheers’*
about 4 years ago
Good Lord, did this thread take a sharp U-Turn or what?
about 4 years ago
- Brock and Ingolfson reconcile differences based in initial misunderstandings… -
Aw, geez, guys… that’s beautiful! (wipes away tear and looks the other way)